Being a new mama is both exciting and overwhelming. Even when you've read all the baby books and blogs, it still feels like you're missing something.
Truth be told, there are certain things that you really just learn along the way. You’ll soon find out that the only way you will really learn about motherhood is when you become a mama yourself.
Here are other things they don’t tell you about being a mother.
1. Breastfeeding is not glamorous or easy.
In reality, it’s sore nipples, heavy breasts, and having a little human attached to you almost 24/7. But in the end, it's worth all the time and effort knowing your baby is getting the nutritional values they can get from your breastmilk. Although challenging, breastfeeding can be more comfortable with a little help from reliable nursing products, such as a nursing bra, a nipple nurse, a lactation massager, and a manual breast pump.
2. There will be a lot of trial and error.
No matter how much research you do, motherhood seems to always have room for surprises. But it's in those moments you learn and gain confidence in your new role.
3. Recovery is going to take more time than you expect.
It might take months for your body to fully recover, and that's normal. Don't push yourself and just take it one day at a time. You might not see it, but your body is getting ready to support your new life as a mama.
Some products that could help you in your postpartum recovery include a postnatal recovery & support belly band, a skincare set, and recovery herbal bath soak.
4. Everything will be okay.
Most of the challenges you face are just temporary. It will get better and remember, there's no better mama for your baby than you.
5. Feeling drained, overwhelmed, and emotional is the norm.
There will be days when you feel so much, all at once. Don't be afraid to ask for help so you can have time to destress and relax. You deserve it. Remember, self-care is not selfish.
