Christmas in the Philippines is a grand affair, marked by countless gatherings, delicious feasts, and the warm embrace of family and friends. Amidst the laughter and overflowing food, there's a playful custom that many Filipinos partake in – the act of "Sharon."
For those unfamiliar, "Sharon" isn't just the name of a beloved Filipino superstar, Sharon Cuneta, but it's also a humorous reference to her song, “Bituing Walang Ningning” with the lyrics “Balutin Mo Ako”. In this context, it’s about wrapping up food to take home from parties.
Yet, like any social custom, there's an art to doing it right. Here's a guide on how to "Sharon" with grace and etiquette during Filipino Christmas gatherings:
1.) Wait for the Host’s Cue: While the act of taking food home is accepted in many Filipino gatherings, always wait for the host to offer first. Often, as the night winds down, the host might announce that guests can start packing some food.
2.) Bring Your Own Container: Come prepared. If you anticipate doing a "Sharon", bring your own reusable containers. Not only is this environmentally friendly, but it also eases the burden on the host.
3.) Moderation is Key: Remember, it's about taking home a little something to enjoy later, not stockpiling for the week. Be considerate about the amount you wrap up, especially if there are many guests.
4.) Join the Wrap-Up Party: Instead of sneaking food into your bag, make it a communal activity. Many Filipino gatherings end with guests collectively wrapping food, laughing, and recalling the night's best moments.
5.) Express Gratitude: Always thank the host not just for the party, but also for the food you're taking home. A simple, "Salamat sa masarap na handa at sa pa-'Sharon'!" (Thank you for the delicious feast and for letting me 'Sharon'!) can go a long way.
6.) Return the Favor: If you're an enthusiastic "Sharon-er," consider hosting your own gathering and allowing your guests to take home some food. It's a beautiful way to reciprocate the generosity.
7.) Be Playful, But Respectful: Remember, the term "Sharon" is a playful nod to a cultural inside joke. While it's fun to use, ensure you're respectful, especially around those who might not be in the know.
In conclusion, "Sharon" during Filipino Christmas gatherings is more than just about taking home food – it’s a testament to the country's communal spirit, generosity, and the age-old belief that sharing food is sharing love. By adhering to these etiquette tips, you can ensure you continue this tradition in the most respectful and enjoyable manner.
